GIGI GOES GAGA: ONCE FRIENDS

STUFF

NARS Fall 2008
This collection is all about shimmering neutrals with hints of gold -- absolutely lovely. I wanted everything but practiced unusual restraint (for now, that is).

I picked up the Cordura eye shadow duo (shimmering warm brown and sooty dark brown)as well as the Fez single shadow, which truly looks like delicious, velvety cocoa. The Senorita lipstick is described as a "sheer shimmering cherry blossom" and is a warm nude-pink, just a touch of color on my lips. These are colors that are going straight to my kit due to their gorgeous versatility. Another classic NARS collection here.
Shimera Seamless Boyshorts

I know boys have their thong fanta- sies, but I stored all of mine at the bottom of my drawers when I discovered boyshorts a long time ago. They are extremely comfortable, invisible when it counts, and come in different heights so you can wear them under just about everything. I'm always on the hunt for the best -- and this style is a great basic. Not too high nor low and so soft that you don't know you're wearing them. They're a steal right now during the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale. I'm going to go back and stock up on more before they practically double in price.
J.Crew

I fre- quently shopped at J. Crew until I didn't, and then I did again. I love their chinos and cashmere, not so much their flipflops (they're just...OK). I love their catalog more than their stores (I just don't find their associates particularly helpful and things always seem to be in disarray). And I usually find something I love in J. Crew Collection. This is probably what GAP's Banana Republic should be -- but isn't. And if they keep having a strong point of view, I won't disappear again.
Schick Quattro for Women

Known fact: I'm clumsy, really clumsy. I trip over my own feet and drop things. So can you imagine me wielding a sharp razor? Scary, for sure. But many years ago I discovered that Schick started making their popular Quattro (four blades, get it?) for women, too -- and so I quickly got my very own. True fact: I've never cut or nicked myself since. Maybe I've just become more careful, but I suspect this product was designed for klutzes like me.
Giovanni Cool Mint Lemonade Salt Scrub
I haven't been this excited in the shower lately -- if they ever discontinued this product I'd be banging on Giovanni's doors all day long. What's not to love? All my favorite scents combined -- essential oils of spearmint, peppermint, lemongrass, and grapefruit. Real crushed mint leaves. All blended in a salt scrub that both exfoliates and moisturizes then leaves a clean, tingly feeling. The best part is it's available in your local drugstore. I'm stocking up on this for the summer.
J Brand Jeans - The Doll

J Brand has been a stylist's favorite for a few years now, and their "Love Story" style has been flying off the shelves. I, however, am in love with "The Doll" instead. High-waisted, bell-bottomed, and made of a four-way stretch denim fabric, these are hella sexy and just a bit retro. Their website describes them as the "ball gown of denim." Worn with a pair of high heels, they sure are.
Einstein Lip Therapy Cooling Relief

If I never threw away anything, I'd have a vast graveyard of rejected lipbalms. I'm just picky that way. Sometimes I like the scent but hate the feel, other times it's the other way around. But this I love. It goes on really smooth, without any kind of waxy feel. Its mint-vanilla scent comforts me, and the long-lasting tingly sensation will be most welcome when summer gets here. Enriched with cocoa butter, vitamins A and E, it's also good for the lips. What's not to love? I'm seriously addicted to the stuff.
Giorgio Armani Face Fabric

When summer arrives, I switch to a tinted moisturizer for everyday wear automatically. For years I've been reaching for Laura Mercier's. This year; however, I'm giving the old standby a break. Armani Beauty recently launched its version, Face Fabric, and I stopped by the counter to see if I love it as much as I do the other Armani foundations. Well...I do, I do! It goes on airy and really smooth. As soon as it touches your face, your skin takes on a velvety, airbrushed appearance. It was 90+ degrees in my neck of the woods today, and this stood up to the heat beautifully. Plus: the SPF 12 adds a wee bit of protection.
Treesje "Avery"

The photo doesn't do this bag justice (how many photos do that for us, after all?). I'm not sure why I've been coveting handbags lately -- it's just not me to do so. But I spotted this from about 20 feet away: it shimmered and danced for me. When I got up close, I fell in love. Oh, save me. Still, I suppose if I have to fall anyway, it might as well be into "Avery's" clutches. And we'd dance the whole day long.
Katherine Kwei Bags

I saw Kwei's "Donna" in lambskin this afternoon. I had to pull myself away, though I kept coming back. I couldn't help myself; I stroked her soft skin repeatedly and breathed in her heady, earthy scent. I wished she were mine. Someday, soon perhaps, she will be.
NARS Summer 2008
It's no secret, certainly no surprise. Just scroll down and it's evident how much I love NARS. I purchased the bulk of this season's "Exotica" collection and they're my new favorites; however, two in particular will always be in my travel makeup traincase.

Galapagos single eyeshadow is a bitter chocolate infused with gold; I plan to use it every day -- either as a liner or to do a gorgeous smoky eye. Supervixen lip gloss is not as nude as pictured; it's more of a nude-ish mauve drenched in subtle gold shimmer. There is no blush to crave this time, but with so many edgy, sexy neutrals to love (with a few punches of color to further spice things up), you won't be complaining for sure.
Marc Jacobs Splash - Pear

I swear I tried to stay away. But I just couldn't resist, it's lure was simply too enticing, too tempting. To alleviate a bit of my guilt, I've been wearing this every day. From its first crisp burst to the lovely barely-there drydown I'm smitten. Top notes: ripe pear, bergamot, lemon zest. Middle: juniper, gin accord, freesia. Bottom: musk, teakwood, amber. Add them all together = Yummy.
Subversive® for Target®

I'm still kicking myself for thinking twice about getting this killer Subversive® (by Justin Giunta) bracelet on the now-defunct online shopping site Girlshop many years ago, when his prices were so much more reasonable (a couple of hundred bucks Vs. a couple of thousands now). So when I found out that Giunta was producing a limited-edition collection for Target, I instantly jumped on it. I can never get that bracelet again (I still dream of it), but I won't dilly-dally this time. Hopefully when the package comes I'll be just as excited as I am now just thinking about it.
Stella McCartney for LeSportsac

I've been waiting for this line to come out forever and now it's here, available for preorder! I want one of everything and in nearly every color. LeSportsac carried all my stuff (and you know I got STUFF!) when I was still a student and now, thanks to Stella, it will do the same for me at work and for travel. This Spring/Summer 2008 line is her first limited-edition collection for the company and I can't wait for future ones to come.
Kevyn Aucoin The Sensual Skin Enhancer

I haven't been without this product for years, ever since I discovered it at a makeup counter during a trip to Chicago. I didn't really know what to make of it at first -- but only because there's so much you can do with this. Mixed with moisturizer it's a terrific tinted moisturizer; applied (sparingly) with a damp sponge it's a transfer-resistant foundation with lots of coverage. I love to use it, however, as a concealer -- it's the only thing that completely hides the little imperfections (broken capillaries, spots, redness) in my face. I apply a tiny bit with a brush and then dab at it softly with a finger. Voila! This stuff is genius -- just as Aucoin himself was. We lost him way too soon.
Bobbi Brown Nude Lip & Eye Palette

Bobbi Brown's got me wrapped around her gloss- covered finger. I don't know how she does it, but she manages to create products that I MUST have season after season. I just received this on my doorstep today and it's gone straight to my makeup bag. Great for traveling (especially when you don't have time to fuss with getting ready in the morning), these colors are simply foolproof -- and pretty. There are four shades each for lips and eyes. Lips: Bare, Beige, Brownie Pink, and Cocoa. Eyes: Bare, Naked, Buff Shimmer, and Nude Shimmer. Includes two mini-brushes for eyes and lips.
Clairol Nice 'n Easy ColorSeal™

It's been a while since I've dared to color my own hair, but I still remember those little sachets of fabulous conditioner that came in Clairol's haircolor kits. I used to think: why don't they sell this separately? And now they have. Once a week I condition my color-treated hair with this and the effects are immediate. My mane feels instantly smooth and soft and looks shiny. And better yet, a tube costs less than five bucks.
Anthropologie Oxford Wedges

These are the shoes I could wear practically all Spring. Neutral and classic but not the least bit boring, with a comfortable 3.5" gracefully curved wood wedge heel that lengthens my legs. Anthropologie has always been my go-to source for quirky shoes with personality galore -- and this season I could happily live with each new pair.
Essie Nailpolish: Steel-ing the Scene
With the near-daily abuse my nails get, I needed to take action so I wouldn't have to hide my hands any longer. Time for a manicure! But all the pretty colors I normally veer towards just seemed too girly. No -- I wanted something tough but beautiful. And this is it, my perfect color. Essie's Steel-ing the Scene is a gorgeous warm pewter, with the slightest glimmer of gold. Navy might be the hue du jour, but I'm thanking the genius who concocted my new favorite shade.
Dr. Martens LE Yohji Yamamoto 10-Eye Boot
The Doc Martens mania came and went sometime in the late 90s (I knew it had hit its zenith when my local Nordstrom set up a huge display, which was quickly ripped apart by furious shoppers -- the same way they did after Oprah declared those ugly Uggs boots as one of her favorite things a few years ago). Since last year I've been jonesing for a pair of Docs boots -- and finally in December I had a valid work-related excuse for buying a pair. Now I wish I had an excuse for getting this. Love the lightweight cotton canvas, and the hidden zipper makes getting into and out of this beauty a breeze.
Juicy Couture Beach Bandeau Swimdress
To my friend Stacy I say, "I can't help it. I love me a cute swimdress!" And this one really is adorable, you've got to admit. Check out the silver metallic fibers, the allover ruching (quite slimming, actually) and even the bow at the ruffled hem. Detachable halter straps keep everything up and in place (and so does the shelf bra).
Bobbi Brown Black Raspberry Lip Sheer
If you're already a fan of Brown's "Black Plum" (or even of Clinique's cult classic "Black Honey"), you will love this new limited-edition shade, part of her Spring Pink Raspberry collection. Don't be afraid if the shade looks awfully bright in the online swatch. This is so sheer when worn that it looks almost natural but better -- as if you were kissing for hours. And who doesn't want to look like that?
Free People "Johnny" Boots
I love boots that look like they've already been places. This one fits the bill. The soft, distressed leather looks like I've had them forever and the straps hint of a bad girl lurking within. But wear this with a feminine top or dress and you can throw everyone off your trail.
Prada Contrast-Hood Jacket
I love this to pieces -- you've got to see it up close to see all the clever details. This beige half-sleeved zip-up jacket has oh-so-feminine puffed sleeves, flapped pockets, and a scoop neckline. But the removable hood is true genius: red on the outside, orange on the inside.
NARS Greek Holiday Lip Gloss
Don't let the smoky dark promotional image for the NARS Spring 2008 line fool you: this collection is extremely fresh and wearable. There are lots here for me to love, but the standout item -- in my personal opinion -- is this gorgeous, ethereal lip gloss. Described as a "sparkling pink sand," it's actually closer to a golden peachy-pink. Lovely when worn with NARS bestselling cheek color Orgasm which now, finally, comes in Multiple form, too.
Pine IV Jeans
Seems like there's a new brand of premium jeans being born every minute. And I still remember the day I gasped at the sight of $100 denim. (Now try $200. $500 even.) I'm not going to pay bucko bucks just to have some chi-chi brand name emblazoned on my ass -- but I will pay for terrific fit and fabric. I will pay for Pine IVs, for sure. This brand is a must-try for real women who aren't built like human hangers. The rise is modestly low (about four fingers below the belly button), fit is snug yet accommodating, fabric is high-end Japanese denim which doesn't bag out and has enough stretch to be comfortable. Their bestselling style is the Kyoto, a midrise jeans with flare legs, but I'm also loving the Suki, a not-so-skinny skinny jean. And while not exactly a green jean, for every pair purchased, Pine IV will plant a tree in partnership with America Forests.
Jemma Kidd Lasting Tint: Semi-Permanent, Waterproof Lash Color
I know, I know -- I keep saying that with all the fabulous drugstore mascara brands out there (let's talk about Maybelline's Full 'N Soft another time, shall we?), there's no reason to spend a wad of cash on a tube that you get to toss after only a few months. But I love THIS. OK, I admit I buckled down and purchased it only because of all the hype -- but I've got to say this does exactly what it claims. It darkens the lashes and stays put all day -- through long hours at work and even while my eyes are constantly watering due to an all-out allergy attack.
breadandbutter Cocoon Top
This has been my favorite top this Fall. So comfortable and flattering, with a scoop neck, bubble hem and cuffs. My favorite detail is the self-lining (almost like a sewn-in tank) which keeps everything smooth and modest on the outside. Two colors: black and nude (cream). This year-old casual clothing line is by Brazilian designer Daisy Linhares, whose aim is to create everyday wear that's stylish yet understated. Judging from her Fall collection, I can throw on pretty much anything of hers on and walk out the door without a second thought. If only everything else in my closet were as easy.
Nau Sequence Skirt
Nau is an outdoor clothing company that currently inspires and excites me. Here's its design philosophy: "The balancing of beauty, performance and sustainability drives everything we do, from developing better, more environmentally friendly fabrics to raising the bar for functional, elegant designs." In addition, 5% of all sales is given to one of their environmental, social or humanitarian partner groups -- and the customer gets to pick which one. Check out their website when you get a chance; in the meantime, I'll be playing with this jersey knit wrap skirt. Cute can have a conscience after all.
Stewart+Brown Button Around Cardigan
Stewart+Brown makes clothes we want to live in -- in more ways than one. Their casual designs and comfy fabrics are easily apparent, but what you don't see as immediately is their commitment to the environment. For instance, they use organic cotton (ie grown in soil that is free from pesticides, herbicides, and other toxins), as well as hemp and linen. And even when they use wool (mongolian cashmere and merino wool from free range sheep from the Southern Alps of New Zealand), their standards are stringent and committed to sustainability. So you can rest easy knowing all this while wearing clothes you can bet on wearing for a long time. This cardigan, for instance, would be a fixture in my wardrobe -- especially since it's a classic, though certainly not boring.

SUPPORT

There's a show I watch every Sunday called Grey's Anatomy (the only other show I MUST see, in addition to Gilmore Girls). It's been receiving loud raves and high acclaim recently -- and rightfully so -- just like my other favorite show, the writing and acting are top-notch, truly superb.

A few episodes ago, the main character Meredith (whom head writer Shonda Rhimes describes as one of the few truly flawed female characters in television today) is devastated and shattered by a series of events and thus makes the hideous mistake of sleeping with George, a "brotherly" friend and one of her roommates, who is also completely smitten and in love with her.

And as much as I cringed and screamed and wanted to barrage the writers with sacks of hate mail, I had to admit -- grudgingly -- that I completely understood why they went ahead with that story line. I absolutely know what it feels like to feel so broken and vulnerable, that all you want to do is find shelter and safe haven wherever you can, even against your better judgment. When you finally convince yourself that what you really want isn't what you need, so you decide to try what you think is good for you even if it's not what you truly desire.

In my life, unfortunately, I've learned over and over again that this is never a good idea. Or at least it just doesn't work for me.

I once had a friend who fell in love with me (against his better judgment, I'm convinced) and whom I didn't love back, at least not nearly in the same way. When I realized it (how could I have not? He flat out told me.) I was utterly dismayed, even a bit devastated. I enjoyed his company, loved talking and laughing with him; he and I hunted for the best Chinese food in West Los Angeles together, he was the guy who forced me to watch The Godfather (and made me enjoy it, too), he was the guy I could even do absolutely nothing with and yet feel blissfully happy and content. He was my friend, my bud, my bro.

And he tried so very hard to make me feel for him what he felt for me, to the point where I'd get so very cross and annoyed with him because I just wanted him to stop and realize he was making a huge mistake. Deep inside I felt I didn't deserve what he was offering, not just because I was so damaged and defective but mostly because I couldn't return his love and affection the way I felt the right girl would and should have. I just wasn't the right one for him and damn it, why he couldn't he see that?

I'll never forget one moment inside his car, one night after he dropped me off beside mine. He was crying as he asked what he could possibly do to make me feel the same way about him. Why didn't I love him, was there something wrong? I remember telling him cooly (I still think about this with shame, I must confess) that perhaps it was better he didn't call me anymore, that maybe it was best I call him instead.

But because I was so fragmented then -- my spirit tired, my heart crushed and weary -- I started believing that maybe his love could make me whole again. In theory it was brilliant: we were great friends and real friendship was an excellent foundation for true love, after all. I told myself that perhaps I refused to love him because I was afraid to get hurt and because I didn't want to ruin our friendship that meant so much to me.

So one night as I stood over him while he corrected papers, he swiveled his chair around to face me, his eyes open and honest and loving. He pulled my face towards him, and we kissed as I sat on his lap, my arms clinging to him completely for support. He was so happy, I could feel it; I was so tentative, I hoped he couldn't tell. But his joy was enough for both of us at that moment, it held enough promise that everything would work out fine.

I don't know exactly how soon after it was when we slept together. When it happened I knew it was so, so completely wrong; I sometimes suspect he felt it, too.The rest of the story is merely details, but what happened is that our friendship ended right then and there. Nothing could truly revive it, not even years later when he phoned to apologize for hurting me (yes, I never saw it coming but I was the one who ended up crying), even after we had Chinese food for lunch and talked and laughed again. Because in the end we committed the same mistake, and although neither one of us cried this time, neither one of us could also remember what it was like when we were merely good friends.

If I could turn back time, I'm not sure which moment I would stop and do over. Through the years there were times I missed his friendship, and I had to content myself with the idea that things happened simply as they were supposed to. My mistake then -- as I had to learn over and over and over again -- was that I was looking for someone else to provide the missing piece of my puzzle. No one could ever possibly complete me, no matter how often romantic movies claim otherwise.

Perhaps he only wanted to complete me -- maybe he simply wanted to save me from myself -- or possibly he needed me to do the same for him. In the end, however, we might have just ripped each other apart. I used to wish we'd be able to turn everything around and become even better friends, but that never happened; we simply moved on with our lives. In my worst case scenario I think of him as a friend I once had and he remembers me as a girl he once slept with.

Not all stories have a happy ending, even if all the characters end up happily -- as we both did. And oftentimes life doesn't wrap up neatly, with everyone finding the closure they seek. Sometimes things just end for no real reason except that they simply do.

But once in a while I miss my old friend, and when regret starts seeping in, I tell myself I would not be me if he and I were still we. In a sense I began where we ended, and sometimes that's just reason enough.

July 2008

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When Words Are Just Words
INCOGNITO: Tales from the Beach
This is not your typical "tropical paradise" beach type of music, as the album title might suggest. Here's how Jean-Paul "Bluey" Maunick explains his inspiration for the group's most recent release: '""When I was a kid, my first taste of music came from the beaches of Mauritius," he says. "I spent a lot of time listening to the hotel bands, or the bands playing around the bonfires and cookouts. It's a small island, so there were beaches everywhere. I was always watching live musicians play. So for inspiration for this album, I went back to various beaches around the world - in Italy, Indonesia and elsewhere - and just let the music flow." And it sure does here, in Incognito's groovy blend of retro soul, funk, jazz, and dance. As always, the vocal power here amazes. Not only does Maysa grace us with her presence on four tracks, but Joy Rose, Tony Momrelle, and Imaani remind us why Incognito continues to remain such a powerful, inspirational force after all these years.
All Good Things
THE WEEPIES: Hideaway

The Weepies, comprised of husband-and-wife Deb Talan and Steve Tannen, have been quite busy since their debut album came out in 2006 -- creating, playing, working with other artists, touring and getting married. I'm a fan of this folk duo's honest, touching music and lyrics, which can talk about pain and longing without dragging you down. When I first heard the song "All Good Things" it sounded familiar and I quickly realized I'd heard the Mandy Moore version first; I then discovered they had worked on her album. No diss to Mandy, but I like this version much, much better. I have a feeling you would, too.
Your Song
LOVE PSYCHEDELICO: This Is Love Psychedelico

This is Love Psychedelico's (or more affectionately known to fans as Delico) first release outside of Asia -- and it's about time. The duo -- singer Kumi and guitarist Naoki -- formed the band about a decade ago and have been singing about love and peace ever since. Their music, a blend of '60s British Invasion and classic '70s rock, combined with mad Japanese-English lyrics, is cool, catchy, and highly infectious. I can't seem to get enough of them. To listen, click here.
Breathe
LALAH HATHAWAY: Self Portrait

This is Lalah Hath- away's fifth album, but only the third that I've heard. From what I can hear for myself, this is her best yet. So many of the tracks here are strong and can stand alone -- in fact, rather than download each and every one, I went ahead and bought the entire CD. Nowadays, I do that only when I believe in the entire package, not just some of its parts. Donny's little girl must be making her dad proud: she may have inherited his velvet voice, but she has a style all her own -- and she only gets better, trust me on this. The first track "Let Go" has been attracting lots of positive buzz, but I can't stop listening to the next song, "Breathe." It makes me do just that.
Pump
The B-52s: Funplex

Has it really been 16 years since their last studio album (and almost 30 years since I was both stunned and seduced by "Rock Lobster")? I love the B-52s so much that I was almost equally thrilled and scared to hear they were coming out with a new album this Spring. Thrilled for obvious reasons; scared because I didn't know if they could still be relevant (they are in their '50s, after all). But as soon "Pump" burst out blazing, I knew they were back. As Strickland says: "It's loud, sexy rock and roll for your pleasure zones, with the beat pumped up to hot pink." Just the way I like it.
Speak Your Heart
LIZZ WRIGHT: The Orchard
Finally, finally it's here. Late last year I heard a full-length version of this single on -- of all places -- Facebook, and was dismayed to discover I had to wait for several months until the album was released. I've been a fan of Wright from the moment I first heard her voice; she has a way of tugging your heart that both lifts it and breaks it at the same time.
La La Means I Love You
PHIL PERRY: The Classic Love Songs
This is such a great tune that it's been covered and sampled time and time again -- unfortunately, not always well. I love this cover by Phil Perry; it keeps the essence of what I love most about this song but adds enough of a spin to keep it fresh. To listen, scroll down to the orange BOX.
Just A Little Lovin'
SHELBY LYNNE: Just A Little Lovin'
This album isn't being released until early February next 2008 but I can't wait. Anyone who has spent enough time with me at a karaoke joint knows how much I love Dusty Springfield...and especially this song (as a kid I belted it out along to Streisand's version). For now you can hear snippets here. Included in the 10-track cd are my all-time favorites: Just a Little Lovin', Anyone Who Had a Heart, I Only Want To Be With You, and The Look of Love.
Gone Girl
TONY RICH: The Tony Rich Project: Pictures
I remember about 10 years ago I just couldn't get away from "Nobody Knows," an R&B ballad that was receiving phenomenal airplay. I simply assumed it was yet another Babyface hit and didn't think twice about it. Then last year this cd, Tony Rich's 4th album, came out and I was wondering why hadn't heard of this artist before? Maybe it's because I got him confused with Babyface (who was Rich's mentor at LaFace), that's why! So I'm wondering now if this might explain why this multi-talented artist (he writes, sings, plays the instruments!) has flown under the radar for so long. The next time, I'll be paying closer attention.
Take Everything In
ANGIE STONE: The Art of Love & War
This is on the list of my personal top Soul/R&B releases of 2007 -- mostly old-school and laid back but always underlined with a smooth groove to keep things interesting. I've been a fan of Angie Stone's from the beginning, but I'm pretty sure this is my favorite of her albums so far. Scroll down to the orange BOX to listen.
Angel
CHAKA KHAN: Funk This
C'mon now, it's Chaka Khan. What else do I have to say?
All I
JILL SCOTT: The Real Thing: Words And Sounds Vol. 3
Can there ever be a bad Jill Scott album? We've yet to find out. For sure, this isn't everyone's cup of tea -- but for those who like her type of brew, sit beside me, kick back, and listen. She was going through a divorce when she was recording this and it shows: even the sensual "All I" is about trying to add fire to a relationship whose embers seem to be dying out.
I Remember
KEYSHIA COLE: Just Like You
I haven't felt the searing pang of heartbreak in so long that it's easy to think I never did. Until I hear this song -- and then I remember just what it was like to still love someone but have to let go. Sucks. This album doesn't however; I'm no music expert but I predict by next year we'll be hearing about Keyshia Cole more than we ever have.
Fire and Rain
Babyface: Playlist
(Wrong album cover) Who knew Babyface loved the music of James Taylor and Bread? I never would have guessed, for sure, even if I'm a fan of the music of all three. Babyface's upcoming album mostly covers various well-loved hits of classic singer/songwriters such as Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, Jim Croce, and Dan Fogelberg but includes original material. After listening to his version of Taylor's "Fire and Rain" (one of my all-time favorite songs, by the way), I can't wait for its September 18th release. Scroll down to the orange BOX to listen.
So Amazing
VARIOUS ARTISTS: Forever, for Always, for Luther II (Dig)
My husband and I were listening to this song on the radio, same way we had many times before. All of a sudden I say in my reverie: "This is such a good version." And he turns to me and asks, "What? This is the original!" And we go back and forth and argue over whether Luther Vandross or Patti Austin originally recorded this song. Of course, I insist it's Luther -- and I'm right. Still, I can't blame the guy for thinking he was right instead: when an artist covers a song and makes it truly his or her own, then it sounds just as good as if it were the original. No one can out-Luther Luther, but Patti sure can hold her own.
Best of Me
CHRISETTE MICHELE: I Am
I've been listening to this album for about a month now and I've got to say my appreciation for it only grows with every spin. Chrisette Michele's musical roots are apparent: jazz, soul, pop, and gospel. If she sounds like a seasoned pro at the age of 24, it's because she's already been performing for 20 years. Her huge talent is a knock-out: she was said to have given goosebumps to Antonio “LA” Reid, Chairman and CEO of Island Def Jam Music Group during her audition. I think she could do the same for you; she certainly did so for me. To listen, scroll down to the orange BOX and click.
Sophia
NERINA PALLOT: Fires
Singer-songwriter Nerina Pallot is well-known and popular in the UK (where she's from) although she's remained under the radar here in the US (at least from what I can tell, since I haven't been listening to the radio). I've only come across her music fairly recently, but what I've heard so far only makes me want to hear more. Tiny in stature but HUGE in talent (she writes her songs, plays the piano and guitar, and her voice can at times make me hold my breath), I predict she'll be a household name in this side of the world by the time I learn how to pronounce her last name correctly (it's pal-loh, supposedly). Scroll down to the box below to listen.
Younger Than Springtime
AMEL LARRIEUX: Lovely Standards
My father owned a copy of the South Pacific movie soundtrack and as a little girl I used to play it when he wasn't around, before I ever got to watch the film. This was my favorite song in the entire record, and so when I realized that Amel Larrieux (one of my favorite singers, ever) covered it in her latest album, I knew I had to listen to it right away. Her arrangement bears little resemblance to the original -- it's now jazzed up and low-key -- and it's testament to the sheer genius of Rogers & Hammerstein that in any form, this tune always manages to send chills up my spine. Though this is perhaps my least favorite Larrieux album, she still can do no wrong in my book. To listen, scroll down and click on the song inside the box.
Dreaming of One
TRINA BROUSSARD: The Same Girl
I first heard her name and voice on the terrific Love Jones soundtrack, which came out 10 years ago. It took many years before I encountered both again, this time when she released her solo album in 2004. Her milky-smooth voice easily transitions between jazz and R&B, and to me is like a cool sip of water on an oppressively dry, hot day. Check out her music here or click in SHARE box below to hear her sweet paean to finding that one true love. If I hadn't done so, she'd make me feel it was just a matter of time.
Greatest Love
MUSIQ SOULCHILD: Luvanmusiq
Multi-awarded Philly-bred musician Musiq Soulchild (who used to be known as Talib Johnson then Musiq Soulchild then just Musiq and then back again) has been hot in the R&B/Neo soul scene since 2000 but considers his latest album his way of reintroducing himself. "I've been away for a little while," he says. "The industry's changed and so have I - personally, mentally, psychologically. I look at my previous three albums as grade school, middle school, and high school. Now with this new album, "LUVANMUSIQ," its like I'm going off to college."All I can say is that if college now sounds like this, then it's never sounded so good. Check out his music here.
On & On
ANTHONY DAVID: The Red Clay Chronicles
Here's a guy who says he can mess around with the piano and guitar but can't play either one too well, who didn't realize he could sing until later on (it's often said he sounds like Bill Withers), but who could write music (which he often did for others). Anthony David's first album was released in 2004 but somehow he didn't cross my radar until earlier this year -- and I consider myself fortunate that he did at all. Another product of the Atlanta music scene, he hung around with India.Arie when even she didn't even know she could sing. And just like the whole world now knows she can, one listen to this man's voice lets you know he sure can, too.
A Girl Called Eddy
A GIRL CALLED EDDY: The Long Goodbye
How can I not love an album whose singer, Erin Moran, has the voice of a falling angel and whose music references Burt Bacharach and the Carpenters, as well as other great singer/songwriters? This came out in 2004 but lately I've been listening to it over and over again. Every word is genuine, every note true -- you know that when you listen to her sing, she's telling you about her life. (PS: And as far as this song goes, you -- yes you -- you know who you are. This is for you.)
I Still Run To You
AMY HOLLAND: On Your Every Word
I listened to this album again and started typing in a frenzy for about half an hour until I was done with my post about B ("Just Friends, Still Friends"). See, back then we listened to this cassette over and over until it was worn thin, and he kept it when I left (though I asked for it back when he found someone new). I finally got the cd when it was finally released -- and I just discovered it now goes for $144 on Amazon.com! I'd never sell it, though; you can't put a price on happy memories, can you now? Well, I certainly can't.
My One Temptation
MICA PARIS: The Best of Mica Paris
Some songs come out of nowhere at the most inappropriate moments. Well..inappropriate only because they trigger in my head a memory of an exact moment in an exact space in time that has absolutely NOTHING to do with where I'm currently at and what I'm doing. And the thought causes this kind of goofy, somewhat embarrassed yet naughty smile to flash all over my face and stop me dead in my tracks -- so that the person I'm talking to then looks at me quizzically and demands, "What??" and I can't possibly say what I'm now thinking of. Except that it's 1988 and boy-oh-boy-oh-boy...
Are We Lovers Anymore
Various Artists: Soul Lounge, Vol. 3
As always, this compilation of 40 soulful grooves (third in the series) is a must-have for any fan of smooth soul and R&B. The only question I have is why was Seek's Something Real included here when it already was in Vol. 1? Never too much of a good thing, perhaps?
Tin Man
INCOGNITO: bees + things + flowers
When I read that Incognito did a remake of this America hit, I was skeptical -- I just couldn't imagine how this could be reimagined in the group's jazzy soulful style. But I'm not a musical genius like Bluey, who describes this laid-back album as being “almost an unplugged affair, recorded the old-fashioned way with everyone playing live in the studio at the same time, and just a few overdubs afterwards. I’m really pleased with it, and to have so much vocal talent on one album is tremendous”. If you're an Incognito fan like I am, then this is a must-have.
Overcome by Happiness
PERNICE BROTHERS: Overcome by Happiness
Yes, I do listen to much more than R&B and Neo-Soul. But if one were to ask me what kind of music I love, I'd have to answer "I know it when I hear it." And I heard this and knew. (I mean, have you heard Joe Pernice's beautiful, comforting voice? REALLY listened to his lyrics?) This was the album that first made me sit up and pay attention -- and it still makes me listen up.
Never Knew Love Like This
CHERRELLE: Cherrelle Greatest Hits
There are songs that can transport me to an exact moment in time, and this is certainly one of them. It's funny how hearing something can make one feel younger instantly: it's akin to botox for the mind. I remember thinking Cherrelle was just another of those "here-now-hear-no-more" '80s artists even then. I might have been right -- but I can't think of that decade without her singing on the soundtrack of my life during that time. I suppose in a way she's here to stay.
Lessons Learned
LATRICE: Illuminate
I first heard her voice when she used to head up neo-soul band Five Point Plan (which I mentioned here a while back) and it stirred me from the get-go. You know those "whoah!" moments when you're listening to something new and you find yourself all distracted, just wondering who the heck is singing? Well, it turns out Latrice was singing. So right now, I'm dancing like a fool to different versions of her hit single "Illuminate" and I can't seem to stop. To listen click here.
Terra de Ninguem
SABRINA MALHEIROS: Equilibria
I may dread the heat, but Sabrina Malheiros' voice makes me miss Summer, especially now that we're starting to fill the slight chill of Fall. An upbeat yet silky-smooth blend of bossa, electronica, R&B and even hip-hop, her debut album is completely fresh and infectious (hard to believe when there seems to be a bossa album born every minute). Only 26 years old, Malheiros already has a lifetime of musical experience. Her father is Alex Malheiros (Azymuth's bassist) and her grandfather played with Sergio Mendez, but the family connection runs only second to her own accomplishments. Oh, and did I mention that voice? -- THAT stunning, pure voice immediately lets you know she'll be around for a long, long time. To listen to album tracks, click here or here.
The Day Ahead
SIJI: God-given
English-born and of Nigerian descent, Siji is a singer/songwriter/producer whose music is a sophisticated blend of soul and traditional African music. I listened to track after track of this album and was amazed I'd never heard of his music -- or anything about him, for that matter -- before. But am I glad I did. If you'd like to hear snippets of his music click here or here. I guarantee his smooth-as-silk voice will draw you in as it did me.
That's When You Fall In Love
Gordon Chambers: INTRODUCING...GORDON CHAMBERS
Gigi: Hey Ted, I don't know if you've heard this singer before but I'm really liking him right now. Ted: What's his name? Gigi: Gordon Chambers. Ted: Who???
So I've been getting this reaction from all my musically-inclined friends, even those who, like me, are R&B fans. All I have to say is if you seem to like the same kind of music I do, give this guy a listen. He'll be worth your time.

Comments

Hey McMeredith....just kidding... I can totally relate to your post (and why eventhough it was painful to watch the Mer/George thing...it somehow made sense). Although I never did cross the theoretical line, I did have a guy friend that was more into me than I was into him. It would have been really easy to succumb to his availability, but at the time I was only into the "dramatic and unattainable". I am relieved that we never "went there", but I still lost him as a friend after I met Michael. I didn't even remember to invite him to my wedding. I guess I must have subconsciously felt weird about it.
Love, love, love "Grey's Anatomy" - we should have a season finale party!
Hugs

Posted by:Sandra | March 21, 2006 at 07:47 AM

There's a guy in my dorm who had a crush on me. I felt horrible because I just thought of us as good friends. I hung out in his room and we kidded with each other. I wasn't attracted to him; I just enjoyed his humor and company. One night at a party, he was very drunk and this other guy I didn't even know (also drunk. I was sober and playing cards, by the way) was haning all over me, putting his arm around me and all. Well my friend just turned towards this weird guy and half mumbles "If you touch her, I'll f*cking slit your throat". He's a real tough guy, if you can't tell. That's when I first really knew, but I never knew what to do about it. Finally, we talked about it and agreed that we were just good friends. I still feel really horrible. I don't think he will ever be able to see me without feeling a little hurt. I enjoy your blog a lot. I'm going to go read some more entries now!

Posted by:Callie | March 21, 2006 at 12:57 PM

Oh sigh, you have so much to say. I am taking notes...

Posted by:jo | March 21, 2006 at 02:17 PM

Again - not sure if this fits but here goes. I had a friend in college once -- was completely smitten and devoted to me. I liked the guy well enough but I was not going to LIKE him that way.

I enjoyed his company and appreciated that he helped me with Math and that he came over to where I lived and brought his friends over to play basketball.

He asked me to his college ball and I went. We both got somewhat drunk and when he dropped me off at home -- he kissed me. I was outraged.

I just wanted to be friends and told him that over and over again. WHY DID HE DO THIS?

He felt that yes, even if I said that we were just and ONLY friends, that because we spent so much time together and enjoyed it, that things could and had changed.

No, they did not.

Even after this -- even after I left Manila for the US -- he wrote to me -- which eventually stopped.

I found out that he was to be married to a wonderful girl -- I found out about this in an article about his death.

I was happy that at least he found love and happiness -- sad for the girl that was left behind -- but till today -- hopeful that somehow he knew that even if I could not and would not be with him -- that he KNEW that I did appreciate him, wished him well, and loved him, even if it was just not that way.

Posted by:trish | March 21, 2006 at 02:42 PM

Hard to believe, but there were a couple of girls who had a crush on me when I was younger. These are girls that I did not know, strangers even, in a way that I'd seen them around but that I don't believe I'd spoken with them until the day I slept with them (shocking, I know). They are still strangers, actually.

I was young then. Young people, men specially, do insensitive things.

Obviously, these incidents are not proud moments for me. But they are learning experiences and gauges to see how much we've grown. Or not.

Do you ever wonder, as I do sometimes, what ever happened to some of the people in our lives and are we better having known them? Are they better off having known us? Do they think of us fondly or do they think of us with such disdain?

Posted by:John | March 21, 2006 at 04:49 PM

Love this post Gigi. I think that it was for the best that things ended the way they did. At least now, he also believes that you two aren't meant to be, instead of leaving him hanging and frustrated. There was closure. Not a lot of relationships have that.

Posted by:Cathy | March 21, 2006 at 04:50 PM

Things happen for a reason. Although sometimes I wish the reasons would be more clearly apparent early on. It may take a lifetime to find the reason for events in our lives. That we seek it is enough to give us a moment of peace, to rest our soul and maybe realize, it was all for good.

Posted by:ernie | March 22, 2006 at 08:00 AM

Hi Sandra - Wish we lived nearer each other so we could watch together!

Hello Callie - Thanks! So glad you stopped by :)

Hi Trish - Did you just say the guy DIED? We need to chat soon so you can tell me more about that. How awful! But what stories you have girl...

Hi Jo - You're so sweet, thank you. I guess I've had a lot to think about. :)

Hello John - I know I'm better off having met/known all the people that came through my life (yes, even the jerks and assholes). It's all part of the experience. As far as how people in my past remember me...hmmm...my conscience is clear so hopefully not too badly. :) Although I suppose it doesn't matter if it don't see/talk to the few who think otherwise. Now I'm curious what the women in YOUR past have to say!

Hello Cathy - I used to have a lot of questions that went unanswered...but now it doesn't really matter.Or maybe I just think in time everything is illuminated so I'll just go with the flow.

Hi Ernie - One thing I know for sure is that sometimes it's good the answers aren't immediately available -- because at least for me, it was always the process of finding them that really helped me, not the answers per se. I mean, how many times have we eventually discovered that the they were right there in front of us all along but we just weren't ready to see or deal with them, you know?

Posted by:Gigi | March 22, 2006 at 10:12 PM

Gigi - I'm certain they never had any profound experiences with me, but I'm hoping they had fun.

Posted by:John | March 23, 2006 at 04:59 PM

gigi, thanks for this entry. very honest, as usual. favorite talaga kita, next to gilmore girls and grey's anatomy. hehehe

Posted by:jove francisco | March 24, 2006 at 11:54 PM

Hi John - I guess we'll never know if they did, but I certainly know I always have fun reading your comments. So maybe that's a good sign? :)

Hello Jove - I saw you on TV when I went home earlier this month! Bitin nga...I tuned in a bit late, so I didn't catch your entire segment. But I started jumping and pointing at the screen -- "It's Jo-veeeeee!"

Posted by:Gigi | March 25, 2006 at 03:10 AM

gigi!

nakatulong ka sa poor ratings namin! hehehe.

thanks! someday we will finally meet face to face, sa CA or sa Manila.

more power sa blog mo na ito.

Posted by:jove francisco | March 25, 2006 at 03:52 AM