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  • Melissa Campana Zig Zag Shoes
    Melissacampana  I first heard about the Melis- sa brand a few years ago when they began distributing their products -- plastic shoes -- in Manila. Meh, I thought. Until I looked up the company and found myself wishing they were available here. Just recently I found them online and immediately snapped up two pairs, both designed by the Campana brothers: the Campana Zig Zag (in a glittery silver, shown) and the funky jelly Campana Corallo (in smoke). I can't even begin to explain how comfortable these are, how they conform to the foot and just...fit. An added plus is how they lack that smelly plastic odor -- in fact, they smell, quite literally, of candy. I'm hooked.
  • Shu Uemura Painting Gel Eyeliner
    Shugeleye Let me just say that I'm an eyeliner fiend. I may not have that Adam Lambert smoky rocker thing going on, but I've tried pretty much every brand and formulation out there. THIS -- and you can quote me on this -- is one of the best in the market right now. It glides on smoothly and then stays put all day, even through an intense 60-minute cardio workout. It's not meant just for eyelining -- creative professionals use this product for face drawing and painting. With nine colors available, there's lots of room for imaginations to go wild.
  • Sally Hansen Natural Beauty Fast Fix Concealer
    SallyhansenFFI remember when the Sally Hansen Natural Beauty (Inspired by Carmindy) line of makeup products appeared in my local CVS. I thought the packaging was terrific and the colors were wearable -- yet I was skeptical. It didn't help that, as with all drugstore cosmetics, you can't test before you buy. So I passed. Until one day they were on promotion and I decided to purchase the Fast Fix Concealer in Medium. It sat in my drawer for a while until I gave it a whirl. Wow -- what ever was I waiting for? This stuff is terrific; it glides on the skin really smoothly and conceals what I want it to (in my case, redness), and stays put. The line is paraben- and fragrance-free, and I've experienced no irritation whatsoever. Now I'm inspired to try the rest of the line.
  • Simply Vera Vera Wang Jewelry
    SVeranecklaceOK, I'll be honest -- I wasn't going to list this because I wanted it to be my little secret. Although I wasn't impressed by Vera Wang's first jewelry collection for Kohl's (it was old-fashioned -- and not in a hip vintage way, I thought), I've been all over her last couple of collections since. Now that I'm on a strict clothing budget, I'm spending more on accessories to help spice up my outfits (I suppose I do have all the basics I need at this point -- and more). I've got to admit I've gotten several pieces from this line that look like I paid a lot more for them, and which I always get compliments on. If this isn't smart shopping, I don't know what is.
  • Laura Mercier Illuminating Tinted Moisturizer
    Product_362_laura_mercier_illuminating_tinted_moisturizer  I probably wear tinted moisturizer more than I do foundation -- which explains why I keep trying different ones. I've been a fan of Laura Mercier's for quite some time now so when she came out with this illuminating version last year, I ran to the nearest stockist and got myself a tube. Because my skin tends towards dryness, I love this formula. It gives my skin a touch of natural dewness without making me look shiny. I layer a bit of her Secret Camouflage concealer (which I've been using since the late '90s faithfully) and instantly I have that "skin-but-better" look instead of a mask on my face. Best of all, it's formulated with a skin-protecting SPF 20. I'll definitely be repurchasing this when I run out.
  • Antik Batik Langoa Flat Sandal
    AntikbatikI've been visiting this pair for more than a month now. I wish it were with me instead but I made a vow of shopping abstinence when the year started, so for now I just look and sigh. This would go with so many things in my closet, but it's gorgeous on its own. I imagine myself bumping into people while wearing this pair because I'd be looking down each time I wore them. For now I have to tell myself that just because I love something, it doesn't mean I can have it. But I can still look, can't I?
  • EcoTools Makeup Brushes
    EcotoolsThis earth-friendly, cruelty-free makeup brush set has a permanent home inside my office drawer, along with a little foolproof kit I assembled for days when I didn't have enough time in the morning to primp (which is usually the case) or if I have to run out to dinner or a last-minute event after work. At home I keep the foundation brush which I use to apply cream blushes to get that glowing, naturally flushed look. That these brushes are inexpensive and 100% guilt-free are good enough reasons to try them out, but that they actually work is why I use them.
  • Alessandra Gallo Stalactite Necklace
    GallonecklaceHow many ways can I love this necklace? I actually think it's reasonably priced, especially since it's handmade and each piece is one of a kind -- but because I've put myself on a dramatically restricted budget, I can only covet. Or hope it goes on sale soon.
  • Freedom T by Yummie Tummie
    Freedom-t-My solution for this indulge- till-you- bulge holiday season. I don't hang around in tank tops and flip flops -- just not my style. But I do own a couple of tanks to wear under sweaters or sheer tops. I like the ones with a hidden shelf bra so everything looks sleek. Now this one goes even a step further: it keeps things up where they should be, and holds me in so I don't look like I've been feasting on crab cakes. The only "but" is that if the party heats up inside, you can't take your sweater off and dance in your tank top -- this thing looks too much like shapewear up close. But it will make you -- and others -- think that you can if you wanted to.
  • Grai
    GraiI couldn't wait for it to get nippy again so I could start layering. The problem is that, while it's a chilly 50 degrees outside, it's a toasty 80 degrees inside my office (rumor is the person who has control over the thermostat on my side gets cold really easily) but about 70 in the hallways. Which is why I practically live in this vest (pictured); I plop it over a tissue tee and I can survive such extremes in temperature all day long. I really love this relatively new line by Los Angeles-based designer Maya Yogev. An Otis alum, she was mentored by Rick Owens, and her designs are sculptural, textural, and kinda badass.
  • Pour La Victoire "Eden"
    EdenDesigned by David Giordano, this French-inspired brand is fierce and fabulous. "Eden" is from his Spring 2009 line (I'm jonesing it in the Nude color, just to rationalize that it would be an utterly practical purchase) and I'm waiting for it to be available. The lace cut-outs are adorable -- but something about this isn't at all saccharine-sweet. I love it!
  • Fifth Avenue Shoe Repair
    FASRThis brand has nothing to do with shoe repair and isn't even located on fabled Fifth Avenue -- it's a Swedish clothing label for men and women, founded by Astrid Olsson and Lee Cotter in 2004 and is known as one of the more avant-garde Scandinavian labels. Dedicated to the craft of tailoring, the brand places intense focus on construction, cutting, and fabrics. The clothes are grounded in neutral colors, mostly black and white, but also gray and brown. According to Astrid: "The androgynous stroke is always present in the collections. We find inspiration in conserving tradition as well as breaking those same norms," I am so in love with this brand; this kind of clothing is what made me fall in love with fashion in the first place.
  • L'Oreal Elnett Hairspray
    ElnettI've been wanting this forever, at least for about a decade -- and I'm not exaggerating either. But I don't wear a lot of hairspray to begin with, so I thought it would be ridiculous to to pay all that money to get this shipped overseas just so I could see if the hype was real. Well, it's real alright -- and it's now available at Target in three stronghold versions (although I understand that this is not the original European formula and was slightly tweaked for the US market). Anyway, two things I especially love about it: (1) it's not sticky and doesn't make my hair crunchy and (2) remarkably, it doesn't irritate my scalp, which is really sensitive. Also, It gives terrific hold and when I brush it out, it doesn't flake. I might just become one of those women who sets her hair at night and wears hairspray yet.
  • "Iam" Boot by Nine West
    9westiamNine West has been around forever; I don't know one girl who hasn't had a pair in her closet at least once. But what I've been loving about them for the past year is that they've been able to come up with on-trend styles at truly affordable prices. Quality may not be Blahnik, but what you get is hardly Blah either.
  • Bobbi Brown Extra Face Oil
    BboilIt's been bone-dry here, so much so that I started feeling my skin tightening up and seeing tiny lines. I bought a bottle of this face oil earlier in the year because I liked the way it felt on my skin (it absorbs quickly and doesn't feel slick) and because it smelled heavenly. This is instant comfort in a bottle.
  • Tracy Reese for Sally Hansen
    Tracy Reese Fall 2008Tracy Reese is one of my favo- rite dress design- ers; she's my go-to when I need something pretty and fun for a special occasion. So when I got word that she collaborated with Sally Hansen for a limited-edition 10-shade Fall 2008 nail lacquer collection, I immediately jumped on it. Without even seeing a single color -- and not having tried Sally Hansen products before -- I knew it was going to be great. And it is. I'm loving "The Good Earth," a rich reddish-brown, but am also smitten by "Stormy Blue," "Raven's Wing," "Moonstone," and "Alchemy." I was really impressed by the quality of the nail lacquer itself (check out the website for a full product description). It won't take another Tracy Reese collection to get me buying Sally Hansen again -- but I'm breathlessly waiting for the next one anyway.
  • Olay Definity Color Recapture Anti-Aging UV Moisturizer + Sheer Illuminating Coverage
    Definity"Your skin looks really good today," my friend Pia remarked all of a sudden, across the dining table where I was gathered with all my girlfriends. I was surprised, particularly because I was REALLY tired from too little sleep and a long drive. All I had on my face was this new tinted moisturizer from the Olay folks and a bit of concealer. This product has definitely exceeded my expectations, though I can't tell you what I think of its anti-aging properties since I've only started using it -- but I'll say that when I smooth it on I suddenly look like I've had enough sleep even if I've not had any. Note: this barely gives you any coverage, but if all you have time to do on a busy morning is apply moisturizer and sunscreen before you head out, this product is a much better alternative.
  • NAIL ENVY!
    I've worn my nails really short for many years now since it's the more practical, low-maintenance way to go. What I also discovered is that although I always shied away from dark shades, they didn't look quite as scary on short nails. Here are a few of my favorite nail things: OPIMnMOPI's Midnight in Moscow is a gorgeous blackened burgundy with rich shimmer. I also love You Don't Know Jacques, a trendy gray-purple taupe from the new France collection. OPIYouDontKnowJacquesI never thought I'd wear green-gold voluntarily on my nails but Chanel's Kaleidoscope is so otherworldly beautiful -- depending on the light it can look like pewter or silver or gold. Good thing I snapped it up when I did -- this shade's no longer available except on sites like eBay (and they can go up to about $80!!!). ChanelchautechocolatYesterday I picked up Haute Chocolat, one of Chanel's holiday offerings. It's described as a shimmering chocolate brown with opulent flecks of gold. Yep, I'm staring at my nails as I type this and it's exactly that.
  • AG "Sweetie" Cropped Jeans
    AG sweetieThese are my "run around town" jeans be- cause I wear them almost every- where I go (might even need a second pair because I'll wear these out). Cropped and skinny and one of the comfortable pairs I own, this is a lightweight dark-washed denim with a bit of stretch, and the rise is a comfortable 8". I love the new sliding snap instead of a regular button to keep everything secure. I used to ask: why wear jeans when it's just as easy to slip on a pair of trousers? Now I know why.
  • Jo Malone White Jasmine & Mint Cologne
    Jm_jasmintOne thing I have to say for the Jo Malone fra- grances I wear (and I wear quite a few) is that they may not inspire passion in a true fragrance aficionado -- but they aren't quite uninspired either. In a pinch I can pick up one of her bottles, drop it into my suitcase and know I won't regret it when I get to my destination. Introduced in the spring of last year, Malone's White Jasmine & Mint cologne is fresh and crisp, and dries down to a cool musk. I've been wearing it to work all summer -- it's like my pick-me-up in the morning. And during hot, steamy nights when I want to boost it up with an added dose of prettiness, I mist a bit of her Orange Blossom fragrance over it. Lovely. Some Notes: Mint (wild mint and peppermint leaf), Jasmine, Chamomile, Bergamot, Orange Flower, and Jo Malone musk.
  • Sonia Kashuk Luxury Lip Color in Sheer Tiger Lily
    SKlipsI always love a serendipitous find. I just happened to be poking around the Sonia Kashuk display case at Target for no particular reason except to kill time and then I found this: gorgeous, sheer, shimmery warm coppery beige shade in a gloss formula. At only $7.99 it's a steal.
  • Inhabit
    InhabitIf you purchased any piece from its debut collection five years ago, chances are you'd still be wearing it today -- as you will five more years from now, and even another five. If I could, I'd live my life wearing knits. I could live in these knits forever. “INHABIT is about a feeling, an attitude, rather than a trend” says, INHABIT Creative Design Director Susie Cho. “I design clothing that is unique, but in an understated way. I like to challenge existing ideas of knitwear with interesting designs and details. I also think that craftsmanship and quality are as important as the design. I love to explore design boundaries while making sure the pieces remain wearable.”
  • MAC Starflash Eyeshadow in Smoke & Diamonds
    MACs&dLast month I bought my friend Harvest a little Mac lip kit for her birthday -- and then couldn't resist picking up a little something for myself as well. I finally pulled the pot out of the box the other night, because I wanted to do a little smoky-but-not-too-smoky eye. Smoke & Diamonds is described by the creative geniuses at MAC as a "frosty dirty taupe" but what I love about it is its slight metallic shimmer that just makes it infinitely more glamorous. I just found out it's a limited-edition product. I guess my gift to a friend was one that kept on giving; this will be a staple in my kit.
  • Belle by Sigerson Morrison
    BelleSMI love Sigerson Morrison, but I have the downtown budget of its (younger) sister, Belle. My birthday gift to myself was this pair of open-toe wedge booties (pictured) and I'm trying to come up with an occasion to justify buying this other pair. I've asked my shoe-loving friends to talk me out of it -- but they're the same ones who said I'd use the booties forever. Maybe Christmas will just have to come early for me this year...
  • David Babaii for WildAid Hydrating Shampoo and Conditioner
    BabaiihyshampI've been seeking out eco- friendly products, but I don't stick with anything that doesn't do what I want it to. I'm convinced that with all the choices we consumers have, there's something for everyone. Now I'm very, VERY skeptical about hair products because I've struggled with my mane all my life. Truth is I decided to try this because it smelled good, I liked the ingredients, and I could always return it to the store if I wasn't happy with my purchase. Well, I won't be returning this for sure. I have dry, dehydrated, colored hair -- but my hair hasn't felt this soft and smooth in a long time. Good for the earth, and good for me, too.
  • Aveeno Skin Brightening Daily Scrub
    AveenoscrubAs anyone who has ever shared a bathroom with me can attest, I switch around skincare products a LOT. But I know something really works when I seem to keep coming back to it after straying for a bit. This scrub I keep returning to: gentle enough to use every day and never irritates my sensitive skin, yet it manages to keep my pores clear (especially around my nose, which is the oiliest part of my face). I've paid way more than twice its price for other scrubs, but this just works for me. The last time I switched, my husband asked "what happened to the scrub in the green tube? I like that one better." High praise coming from a guy who always responds "It's OK" with an indifferent shrug whenever I ask for his opinion.
  • NARS Fall 2008
    This collection is all about shimmering neutrals with hints of gold -- absolutely lovely. I wanted everything but practiced unusual restraint (for now, that is).

    Cordura

    I picked up the Cordura eye shadow duo (shimmering warm brown and sooty dark brown)Senoritaas well as the Fez single shadow, which truly looks like delicious, velvety cocoa. The Senorita lipstick is described as a "sheer shimmering cherry blossom" and is a warm nude-pink, just a touch of color on my lips. These are colors that are going straight to my kit due to their gorgeous versatility. Another classic NARS collection here.
  • Shimera Seamless Boyshorts

    Shimera

    I know boys have their thong fanta- sies, but I stored all of mine at the bottom of my drawers when I discovered boyshorts a long time ago. They are extremely comfortable, invisible when it counts, and come in different heights so you can wear them under just about everything. I'm always on the hunt for the best -- and this style is a great basic. Not too high nor low and so soft that you don't know you're wearing them. They're a steal right now during the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale. I'm going to go back and stock up on more before they practically double in price.
  • J.Crew

    Jcrew

    I fre- quently shopped at J. Crew until I didn't, and then I did again. I love their chinos and cashmere, not so much their flipflops (they're just...OK). I love their catalog more than their stores (I just don't find their associates particularly helpful and things always seem to be in disarray). And I usually find something I love in J. Crew Collection. This is probably what GAP's Banana Republic should be -- but isn't. And if they keep having a strong point of view, I won't disappear again.
  • Schick Quattro for Women

    Schick

    Known fact: I'm clumsy, really clumsy. I trip over my own feet and drop things. So can you imagine me wielding a sharp razor? Scary, for sure. But many years ago I discovered that Schick started making their popular Quattro (four blades, get it?) for women, too -- and so I quickly got my very own. True fact: I've never cut or nicked myself since. Maybe I've just become more careful, but I suspect this product was designed for klutzes like me.
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IT'S A FAMILY AFFAIR

So I attended my cousin's daughter's debut yesterday and hung out with a horde of cousins and near-cousins (Filipinos consider close family friends as "cousins" also). I'm the relative seen only during five-year intervals and so I'm usually shocked how much the kids have grown (if I even know they exist or can remember their names, that is) and I always have to be careful about the questions I ask just in case folks have split up, for instance.

Don't get me wrong: I love my cousins (both real and imaginary) on both sides of the family. When we get together we never run out of things to talk about and I never stop laughing; if they weren't related to me I'd still enjoy their company, you see. Once in a while I'll spot peculiar character traits or mannerisms in them that I thought only I had, and then I'll realize there's more to genetics and DNA than just physical similarities.

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With my sisters and (real) cousins. I'm the one seated all the way to the left

But because I rarely see them I assume they know nothing about what I'm doing or what I'm up to -- and it turns out they know way too much. As it happens, they all know about my blog, even if I'd taken great pains to keep it away from the family (with the exception of my sisters, whose assistance I'd enlisted to guarantee my parents don't ever find it).

Get this: a year or so ago my friend M googled himself and found my post where I'd mentioned his name. Now I had written this way back in the day when I had fewer readers than relatives and used to refer to people by their real names because I didn't know any better. So M told his good friend, my first cousin L, as well as L's mom (!!!), who then told all my other maternal first cousins as well as her own siblings and their children -- including my ex whom I used to call my cousin (and who I think of again as such for the sole benefit of our spouses, just in case either would mind).

And, yes, they've all read my blog. Including the ex, whom I wrote about in great detail once.

So now my cousins who rarely see me know more about me than anyone's family ever should; for instance, about my makeup addiction, bra collection, and even about -- gasp -- my ex-boyfriends and dating (mis)adventures. They know -- as you all do -- about everything I like and love, and even weird things about myself, like how I always cross myself before I drive but not ever during group prayer.

I suppose this means I can expect never to be asked to be one of their children's baptismal godmothers or invited to any birthday party held at Chuck E. Cheese, and they can safely assume I'll have a ready answer for shopping or gardening questions. And now -- if they're reading this -- they also know that despite appearances (or more accurately, my non-appearances) I really do love them all and very much so. Yes, even that ex who's now back to being my "cousin."

Question of the Day: Why should cousins -- even fake ones -- NEVER date?
Answer: Because they will inevitably bump into each other at family events. Literally.

Photographer: Okay, everyone get really close. (We all shuffle towards each other.) C'mon, closer, closer. Get closer (gestures for those on right side to move in towards the middle even more).

Me: (standing in the middle and getting tightly sandwiched, whispers in mock-annoyance to the ex-who's-now-my-cousin-again) Geez, how much closer can we get to each other anyway?

Him: (says slowly and meaningfully) Don't go there.

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Oh God Gigi you've been hit too! Just want to ask, how will you handle it? Will you be more careful with what you post? I am really surprised at how 'relatives' find out about blogs. Creeps me out a bit.

Anyway, great and funny story!

Hi Cathy - I've got to admit I've been somewhat more careful (less open?) with what I post since I discovered my readers consisted not merely of fellow bloggers and "strangers" but also of relatives and -- eeks -- exes (you should see some of the private email I get from them). Sometimes I even think of starting up a completely anonymous blog just to get that rush from writing so uninhibitedly and freely again...although two blogs are already two too many to maintain. :)

my relatives found out about my blog too and things have never been the same.I suddenly feel "naked" in front of them!

Does your spouse know about your blog???????? =) Heehee! Well Gigi, as they say in Tagalog: "May tenga ang lupa, may pakpak ang balita." <-- not entirely sure if I quoted it correctly, but y'know what I mean. Have a good week! =)

Hi Duke - When I found out I had relatives (on both sides of the family) that knew, the only thing I could think of to comfort myself was: well, at least they always knew I was strange anyway. :)

Hello Jovs - Yes he does, but he refuses to read it. My hubby is a very, very smart (and secure) man. :)

That's exciting. I would be happier if my family found my blog, they would be feeling sad about me because I've been complaining a lot about working too hard and because of them I'm stuck in HK.

On the sad note, I had the feeling one of my colleague is reading my blog so I stopped writing work petpeevies.

If I may ask, what do you think of the nrew PRADA perfume for men and how much does it costs there? I'm trying to compare prices around here. I love the scent.

I don't mind if relatives or any family member reading my blog.I hardly write about them anyway,lol

Hoy aren't we magpinsan too ? Maybe not, although I think you did go to school with one of my cousins from Davao, Jackie P, not sure what school, Maryknoll, St Pauls,St Scho ? One of those iskwelahan ng mga sosyal

BTW, what do you remember about all those karaoke nights at Little Tokyo with Ted, Augs and Dennis ? just wondering.

Hi K - don't you worry, they'll find you. I really believe now that it's inevitable, just a matter of time.

Are you talking about Prada Amber Pour Homme? If so, a 1.7 oz. of the EDT goes for about $50.00. But the better deal is if you get the 3.4 oz. -- about $68.00. Ay sayang, Sephora just had a 20% Friends & Family promotion (ended Nov. 26th)! How much is it being sold over there in HK?

Hi cheH - I don't even want to know what stuff my cousins have read. I don't go back and re-read my old posts so I can remain in denial. So good for you! :)

Hello Allen - Ha, you probably think I've forgotten all your stories from your military days. I remember Ted and I being quite shocked. I can't speak for him, but I do recall thinking you were yet another politically-inclined UCLA geek/nerd -- but I was so, so wrong. And do you remember all the Yakuza guys who used to hang out by the bar and chat with Mimi? And those late nights we sung practically every karaoke song they had at the bar? Ah, those were all wonderful nights, weren't they? :)

I haven't checked yet. The funny thing was, my GQ magazine has this "try-on" page and I swiped my hands on it. The smell is too "barber soap" for me and I loved it. So &68 is not bad. Thanks for the info.

i love this post!

and i can soo relate! some cuz are reading my blog and yes,my daughter who is in Tokyo,away from home,also reaqds it. and i do write some sexy stuff once in a while but then,that's me!

Hi Sachiko - Yes, you are one hella sexy mama and I think it's great that everyone knows it!

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    Just Like Heaven
    KATIE MELUA: Piece by Piece

    This late-80s song by British alt-rock band The Cure always made me melt with its tenderness. When I heard singer/songwriter Katie Melua's 2005 version I was a soppy mess on the floor. When she sings: ""Show me how you do that trick, the one that makes me scream" (h)e said. "The one that makes me laugh" (he) said. And threw (his) arms around my neck. "Show me how you do it and I promise you I promise that I'll run away with you. I'll run away with you." You believe she will. Gladly.

  • YEAH YEAH YEAHS - Y Control

    Y Control
    YEAH YEAH YEAHS: Fever to Tell

    This tune is more than five years old, yet when it plays on my iPod while I'm running on the treadmill I'm in constant danger of falling off due to intense head bobbing. When Karen O sings, I want to be her: she's just too cool.

  • INCOGNITO - When Words Are Just Words

    When Words Are Just Words
    INCOGNITO: Tales from the Beach

    This is not your typical "tropical paradise" beach type of music, as the album title might suggest. Here's how Jean-Paul "Bluey" Maunick explains his inspiration for the group's most recent release: '""When I was a kid, my first taste of music came from the beaches of Mauritius," he says. "I spent a lot of time listening to the hotel bands, or the bands playing around the bonfires and cookouts. It's a small island, so there were beaches everywhere. I was always watching live musicians play. So for inspiration for this album, I went back to various beaches around the world - in Italy, Indonesia and elsewhere - and just let the music flow." And it sure does here, in Incognito's groovy blend of retro soul, funk, jazz, and dance. As always, the vocal power here amazes. Not only does Maysa grace us with her presence on four tracks, but Joy Rose, Tony Momrelle, and Imaani remind us why Incognito continues to remain such a powerful, inspirational force after all these years.

  • All Good Things
    THE WEEPIES: Hideaway

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    The Weepies, comprised of husband-and-wife Deb Talan and Steve Tannen, have been quite busy since their debut album came out in 2006 -- creating, playing, working with other artists, touring and getting married. I'm a fan of this folk duo's honest, touching music and lyrics, which can talk about pain and longing without dragging you down. When I first heard the song "All Good Things" it sounded familiar and I quickly realized I'd heard the Mandy Moore version first; I then discovered they had worked on her album. No diss to Mandy, but I like this version much, much better. I have a feeling you would, too.
  • Your Song
    LOVE PSYCHEDELICO: This Is Love Psychedelico

    Delico

    This is Love Psychedelico's (or more affectionately known to fans as Delico) first release outside of Asia -- and it's about time. The duo -- singer Kumi and guitarist Naoki -- formed the band about a decade ago and have been singing about love and peace ever since. Their music, a blend of '60s British Invasion and classic '70s rock, combined with mad Japanese-English lyrics, is cool, catchy, and highly infectious. I can't seem to get enough of them. To listen, click here.
  • Breathe
    LALAH HATHAWAY: Self Portrait

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    This is Lalah Hath- away's fifth album, but only the third that I've heard. From what I can hear for myself, this is her best yet. So many of the tracks here are strong and can stand alone -- in fact, rather than download each and every one, I went ahead and bought the entire CD. Nowadays, I do that only when I believe in the entire package, not just some of its parts. Donny's little girl must be making her dad proud: she may have inherited his velvet voice, but she has a style all her own -- and she only gets better, trust me on this. The first track "Let Go" has been attracting lots of positive buzz, but I can't stop listening to the next song, "Breathe." It makes me do just that.
  • Pump
    The B-52s: Funplex

    Funplex

    Has it really been 16 years since their last studio album (and almost 30 years since I was both stunned and seduced by "Rock Lobster")? I love the B-52s so much that I was almost equally thrilled and scared to hear they were coming out with a new album this Spring. Thrilled for obvious reasons; scared because I didn't know if they could still be relevant (they are in their '50s, after all). But as soon "Pump" burst out blazing, I knew they were back. As Strickland says: "It's loud, sexy rock and roll for your pleasure zones, with the beat pumped up to hot pink." Just the way I like it.
  • LIZZ WRIGHT - Speak Your Heart

    Speak Your Heart
    LIZZ WRIGHT: The Orchard

    Finally, finally it's here. Late last year I heard a full-length version of this single on -- of all places -- Facebook, and was dismayed to discover I had to wait for several months until the album was released. I've been a fan of Wright from the moment I first heard her voice; she has a way of tugging your heart that both lifts it and breaks it at the same time.

  • La La Means I Love You
    PHIL PERRY: The Classic Love Songs
    PperryThis is such a great tune that it's been covered and sampled time and time again -- unfortunately, not always well. I love this cover by Phil Perry; it keeps the essence of what I love most about this song but adds enough of a spin to keep it fresh. To listen, scroll down to the orange BOX.
  • SHELBY LYNNE - Just A Little Lovin'

    Just A Little Lovin'
    SHELBY LYNNE: Just A Little Lovin'

    This album isn't being released until early February next 2008 but I can't wait. Anyone who has spent enough time with me at a karaoke joint knows how much I love Dusty Springfield...and especially this song (as a kid I belted it out along to Streisand's version). For now you can hear snippets here. Included in the 10-track cd are my all-time favorites: Just a Little Lovin', Anyone Who Had a Heart, I Only Want To Be With You, and The Look of Love.

  • Gone Girl
    TONY RICH: The Tony Rich Project: Pictures
    TonyrichI remember about 10 years ago I just couldn't get away from "Nobody Knows," an R&B ballad that was receiving phenomenal airplay. I simply assumed it was yet another Babyface hit and didn't think twice about it. Then last year this cd, Tony Rich's 4th album, came out and I was wondering why hadn't heard of this artist before? Maybe it's because I got him confused with Babyface (who was Rich's mentor at LaFace), that's why! So I'm wondering now if this might explain why this multi-talented artist (he writes, sings, plays the instruments!) has flown under the radar for so long. The next time, I'll be paying closer attention.
  • ANGIE STONE - Take Everything In

    Take Everything In
    ANGIE STONE: The Art of Love & War

    This is on the list of my personal top Soul/R&B releases of 2007 -- mostly old-school and laid back but always underlined with a smooth groove to keep things interesting. I've been a fan of Angie Stone's from the beginning, but I'm pretty sure this is my favorite of her albums so far. Scroll down to the orange BOX to listen.

  • CHAKA KHAN - Angel

    Angel
    CHAKA KHAN: Funk This

    C'mon now, it's Chaka Khan. What else do I have to say?

  • All I
    JILL SCOTT: The Real Thing: Words And Sounds Vol. 3
    51442zrcsl_aa240_Can there ever be a bad Jill Scott album? We've yet to find out. For sure, this isn't everyone's cup of tea -- but for those who like her type of brew, sit beside me, kick back, and listen. She was going through a divorce when she was recording this and it shows: even the sensual "All I" is about trying to add fire to a relationship whose embers seem to be dying out.
  • KEYSHIA COLE - I Remember

    I Remember
    KEYSHIA COLE: Just Like You

    I haven't felt the searing pang of heartbreak in so long that it's easy to think I never did. Until I hear this song -- and then I remember just what it was like to still love someone but have to let go. Sucks. This album doesn't however; I'm no music expert but I predict by next year we'll be hearing about Keyshia Cole more than we ever have.

  • Babyface - Fire and Rain

    Fire and Rain
    Babyface: Playlist

    (Wrong album cover) Who knew Babyface loved the music of James Taylor and Bread? I never would have guessed, for sure, even if I'm a fan of the music of all three. Babyface's upcoming album mostly covers various well-loved hits of classic singer/songwriters such as Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, Jim Croce, and Dan Fogelberg but includes original material. After listening to his version of Taylor's "Fire and Rain" (one of my all-time favorite songs, by the way), I can't wait for its September 18th release. Scroll down to the orange BOX to listen.

  • VARIOUS ARTISTS - So Amazing

    So Amazing
    VARIOUS ARTISTS: Forever, for Always, for Luther II (Dig)

    My husband and I were listening to this song on the radio, same way we had many times before. All of a sudden I say in my reverie: "This is such a good version." And he turns to me and asks, "What? This is the original!" And we go back and forth and argue over whether Luther Vandross or Patti Austin originally recorded this song. Of course, I insist it's Luther -- and I'm right. Still, I can't blame the guy for thinking he was right instead: when an artist covers a song and makes it truly his or her own, then it sounds just as good as if it were the original. No one can out-Luther Luther, but Patti sure can hold her own.

  • CHRISETTE MICHELE - Best of Me

    Best of Me
    CHRISETTE MICHELE: I Am

    I've been listening to this album for about a month now and I've got to say my appreciation for it only grows with every spin. Chrisette Michele's musical roots are apparent: jazz, soul, pop, and gospel. If she sounds like a seasoned pro at the age of 24, it's because she's already been performing for 20 years. Her huge talent is a knock-out: she was said to have given goosebumps to Antonio “LA” Reid, Chairman and CEO of Island Def Jam Music Group during her audition. I think she could do the same for you; she certainly did so for me. To listen, scroll down to the orange BOX and click.

  • NERINA PALLOT - Sophia

    Sophia
    NERINA PALLOT: Fires

    Singer-songwriter Nerina Pallot is well-known and popular in the UK (where she's from) although she's remained under the radar here in the US (at least from what I can tell, since I haven't been listening to the radio). I've only come across her music fairly recently, but what I've heard so far only makes me want to hear more. Tiny in stature but HUGE in talent (she writes her songs, plays the piano and guitar, and her voice can at times make me hold my breath), I predict she'll be a household name in this side of the world by the time I learn how to pronounce her last name correctly (it's pal-loh, supposedly). Scroll down to the box below to listen.

  • AMEL LARRIEUX - Younger Than Springtime

    Younger Than Springtime
    AMEL LARRIEUX: Lovely Standards

    My father owned a copy of the South Pacific movie soundtrack and as a little girl I used to play it when he wasn't around, before I ever got to watch the film. This was my favorite song in the entire record, and so when I realized that Amel Larrieux (one of my favorite singers, ever) covered it in her latest album, I knew I had to listen to it right away. Her arrangement bears little resemblance to the original -- it's now jazzed up and low-key -- and it's testament to the sheer genius of Rogers & Hammerstein that in any form, this tune always manages to send chills up my spine. Though this is perhaps my least favorite Larrieux album, she still can do no wrong in my book. To listen, scroll down and click on the song inside the box.

  • TRINA BROUSSARD - Dreaming of One

    Dreaming of One
    TRINA BROUSSARD: The Same Girl

    I first heard her name and voice on the terrific Love Jones soundtrack, which came out 10 years ago. It took many years before I encountered both again, this time when she released her solo album in 2004. Her milky-smooth voice easily transitions between jazz and R&B, and to me is like a cool sip of water on an oppressively dry, hot day. Check out her music here or click in SHARE box below to hear her sweet paean to finding that one true love. If I hadn't done so, she'd make me feel it was just a matter of time.

  • MUSIQ SOULCHILD - Greatest Love

    Greatest Love
    MUSIQ SOULCHILD: Luvanmusiq

    Multi-awarded Philly-bred musician Musiq Soulchild (who used to be known as Talib Johnson then Musiq Soulchild then just Musiq and then back again) has been hot in the R&B/Neo soul scene since 2000 but considers his latest album his way of reintroducing himself. "I've been away for a little while," he says. "The industry's changed and so have I - personally, mentally, psychologically. I look at my previous three albums as grade school, middle school, and high school. Now with this new album, "LUVANMUSIQ," its like I'm going off to college."All I can say is that if college now sounds like this, then it's never sounded so good. Check out his music here.

  • ANTHONY DAVID - On & On

    On & On
    ANTHONY DAVID: The Red Clay Chronicles

    Here's a guy who says he can mess around with the piano and guitar but can't play either one too well, who didn't realize he could sing until later on (it's often said he sounds like Bill Withers), but who could write music (which he often did for others). Anthony David's first album was released in 2004 but somehow he didn't cross my radar until earlier this year -- and I consider myself fortunate that he did at all. Another product of the Atlanta music scene, he hung around with India.Arie when even she didn't even know she could sing. And just like the whole world now knows she can, one listen to this man's voice lets you know he sure can, too.

  • A GIRL CALLED EDDY - A Girl Called Eddy

    A Girl Called Eddy
    A GIRL CALLED EDDY: The Long Goodbye

    How can I not love an album whose singer, Erin Moran, has the voice of a falling angel and whose music references Burt Bacharach and the Carpenters, as well as other great singer/songwriters? This came out in 2004 but lately I've been listening to it over and over again. Every word is genuine, every note true -- you know that when you listen to her sing, she's telling you about her life. (PS: And as far as this song goes, you -- yes you -- you know who you are. This is for you.)